missworldfan wrote:Wow! Some of you are just pure horrible human beings. You want Megan to dump her bf so you all can enjoy a victory in a pageant? There is more to a life than a pageant. If Megan choosing her relationship over a career then it's her choice, she is a grown woman and I'm sure she knows what she is doing. Best wishes to her and her relationship.
I did say if she wants to stay, she can put her foot down make her dreams and goals plus the relationship work, and not just choose one thing. Note that she can choose both. My problem however with the guy is that I feel like he is caging Megan and I feel like it's like having to choose bet him and a possible career abroad. It's as if there's some sort of leash on her. That issue made me to conclude that maybe she's better off with someone who wont cage her, will support her and make her grow. She knows what she's doing? Anyone in a relationship usually dont see the problem (dont get to see the bigger picture) esp if it's all seemingly happy and even the people around that person may seem to see their happy and just let it be. But the problem here is that while it seems a happy thing, she is being hindered to becoming the BEST version of herself. He may have helped her a few times but there seems to be that hold on her that is not allowing her to thrive. What happened to her degree? What happened to her priorities? Why is it all of the sudden her priority is to travel, eat around and be mere companion in a vlog that doesnt help her career-wise or personal growth? What happened to her planned charity? Why is that all of the sudden he always have to be there with her in guestings/shows? Why is her image branding suddenly with the guy when she always stood on her own? She's the one with projects and endorsements, mind you. Why is the guy keeps talking and spilling about her when she used to be private? I know I have no huge personal access on their relationship but have what is being fed by cheesy PR. But by observation and things they talked about and with Megan's personal and career trajectory, I'm not sure if I like it. It is not "couples goal" if in truth one side of the partnership is slow/stunted/stagnant in growth. It's unfortunate that Megan is the one getting shortchanged. Would you want your friend or someone you look up to not grow, not progress and not be the best version of themselves? I remember someone very similar - Georgina Wilson. She was also stuck in a similar relationship when she could have chosen a better career abroad that was waiting for her. It was such a waste of time and potential but she did manage find someone who's supportive even if it meant for her husband and her to travel a lot just to be with each other. If Megan chooses this guy, then fine but I hope that he finally allows her to become and not let her get the short end of the stick between them. If not that then, i hope for someone better for her - someone who is a support system and be an inspiration. I only hope for the best for Megan. She needs to make or find a good supportive relationship wherein she and her partner both thrive in different life aspects like career and personal growth, because the current one is counter productive to one side, her side. Btw, there's nothing wrong when fans critic when something appears off and affecting the person being admired in a negative way, and hope for the best for the person they admire (not for the fans' satisfaction, mind you, but for her benefit). It is also not horrible when one is being truthful about their observations about the people they admire. We both the wanted best for her but I wont turn a blind eye or wont be concerned if I notice something is off.
Note: This will be my last reply regarding this issue. I think it's best to focus on Manushi (and MW2017) since this is about her win which should be celebrated as it's well deserved. So best to show respect to our fellow forumers by focusing on the real topic in this thread.